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The View From Here
By Katherine Veno
It is a cooler day...
Well, here comes the fall. First it is Labor Day and we should not wear white shoes anymore until Easter, and it is cooler outside.
This has been a brutal summer for man and beast. It is good to have a cooldown. I have lived in Texas all my life, but have loved snow, and experienced little of it. It seems we always long for what is not available.
Soon the leaves will turn to red and gold and be floating through the air. This is the best time of year to ride a horse or a motorcycle or put the windows down in the car. Fall is a festival of crisp morning air and cool nights. The trees put on a show that no artist can resist.
Allergies do not seem to drag me down like they do in the spring, so fall is a favorite time for me. I like to be outside, so it is a time to relish the texture and sights, sounds and feelings that autumn brings.
Back to school may have been hot, but it gives way to Friday night football games with jackets and football mums. The excitement of the youngsters is absolutely tangible. The relief to the oldsters that summer’s heat is relenting is also a good feeling.
Fall brings us a chance to get outdoors again and not sweat. We can take along a nice shawl or sweater, just in case we need it. The animals and people alike have more energy and look better.
Flip-flops give way to cuddly socks and fuzzy lined boots. Shorts give up to long pants and hats come out of the closet on a blustery fall morning.
But it is all part of the beauty of life’s cycle. For as sweltering as summer was here in Texas, the land always gives forth the golden time of autumn for us to enjoy and savor.
There is a path lined with trees swathed in gold and red that awaits my step. A rabbit runs across my way and stops to look me over. I stop and look back. We both move again and the rabbit disappears into the colored foliage, just as I turn by the water and see the old crane fishing.
It is nearly fall, and winter will not be far behind, so I will walk the path every chance I get, for neither or any of us ever knows when the winter of the lion will sweep us all away.

 

Escapades of Emily
By Emily Gail Lundy
School days...
Saturday morning seemed like a good time for my husband and me to go somewhere. We headed west, stopped in a town of size and did our school shopping. Hubby now has two new pairs of jeans; I have two unworn blouses. Then we ate “out” and came home to escape the heat.
Having two to outfit for autumn and not six has to be an advantage with uncountable worth.
My children grew slowly; the girls reached five feet and slightly over in junior high, and the boys grew more after graduating. I learned to buy ahead with confidence. One size up each year about accomplished it. Of course, they wore out clothing and shoes, which had to be replaced. But a mall could be reached on the outside of the metroplex in less than an hour.
My boys had every color made in Sears’ toughskin jeans, double-strength knees, even magenta. When younger, the male species would wear about anything Mama laid out on their bed. With girls, I couldn’t dictate but one or two years. Some mothers have clothing selection fights from the beginning.
The older daughter had few complaints, but the younger quit wearing dresses, stayed in about the same four outfits a year (making me look partial to the other), and would not wear decorated jeans or cutsie clothing.
Boys and girls in a family are too different to form a list. Most say boys are easier but in the big picture, more expensive. We worry and stress out more about girls. Probably the rearing of either gender is about the same.
We started dressing children out west with Montgomery Ward and one fancy children’s store for special occasions. Then came N.E. Texas, and Sears, then Gibsons, were the meccas. My children rely on Target, Walmart, any store with a sale for their children.
I had a generous neighbor with two daughters. After they married and had children, this friend liked to outfit the family for no reason. She would say, “What I do for one, I do for all.”
I could do that, but not at the same time.
I think going back-to-school buying has a new routine today. I bought in quantity, not knowing when or how I’d have time to do much later, except for emergencies.We know new styles can’t be worn until around November because of our hot weather. Or a new style in something can slip in early December, and everyone has to have it, like a hoodie.
In late spring, the cry goes out for new clothing again. All I really remember with younger students was washing, keeping socks straight, and then ruining one article for each to tell me, “Mama, don’t wash any more of my clothes. Some are meant to be wrinkled. Others can’t be dried. You’re ruining my clothes.”
Mission accomplished, purposely or accidentally. I don’t remember. For Dad, I felt responsible.
My husband, raised in a rural community, with a one-room school, had a work outfit and a school set.
As soon as he returned home for the day, the school wardrobe went up on a nail, and the old clothes were put on for chores. He received one pair of shoes a year, ordered from a catalogue. The nearest town might be visited once a week for meal, flour and sugar. He repeatedly says his childhood was happy – maybe not high school, when all kids like him had to go into the town’s school and reap the “humiliation” from the “city” kids. The superintendent vowed no one from his community would graduate from this high school.
Well, some did. Some moved. One family moved to ranch for work in my hometown. The middle son of the family I met caught my eye, and the rest is history.
Of course, we hear much about TP&L bosses being mean in the 1930s about not wanting country kids above us come into our school in Trinidad. My brother and I had already been on the path to school here, as our parents would marry in 1937, and their children would attend Trinidad school. We were country. The family next door was, too.
All over the community, we went to school with the TP&L transplants and made friends. These students found country didn’t mean dumb, as anyone with an ounce of sense should know. Our neighbor’s son became president of a college and deputy chancelor at Texas A & M, College Station. Many of us “country”earned college degrees and tried to be successful in life. But those “country” boys quit wearing overalls.

 


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